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Divorce Mediation for High-Net-Worth Couples and Couples in Debt

Divorce mediation can work for couples with multimillion-dollar estates or significant debt. Learn how financial analysis, CDFA® expertise and mediation can help couples make informed divorce decisions.

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LGBTQ+ Divorces Happen Too: Divorce Is Divorce

LGBTQ+ couples face the same important divorce decisions involving children, homes, retirement accounts, finances, and parenting. Learn how mediation can provide a respectful, private path forward. The issues of divorce are human issues. And every family deserves to be treated with dignity and respect throughout the process.

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Sharon Count
What's on Your Divorce Picnic Menu This Summer?

Planning a summer picnic requires choices. Burgers or brisket? Potato salad or coleslaw? When it comes to divorce, you also have a menu of options. Litigation, collaborative divorce, and mediation each offer a different experience, timeline, and cost. Before you place your order, learn what's on the menu and discover which path may be the best fit for your family.

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Sharon Count
Who Gets the Pet in a Divorce? What Families Should Consider

When couples move through divorce, one of the most emotional and unexpected questions is: who gets the dog in a divorce? While financial decisions often feel more pressing, conversations about pets in divorce can quickly become deeply personal. A family pet during divorce represents more than property. It represents routine, comfort, and stability at a time when life feels uncertain. Because divorce and pets are such an emotional combination, approaching the decision thoughtfully can make a meaningful difference for everyone involved.

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Starting With the Ending: The Unexpected Gift of Your First Date After Divorce

The first date after divorce is strange. Not because you don’t remember how to sit across from someone at a table. Not because you don’t know how to smile, make conversation, or ask someone about their life. It’s strange because it feels like stepping into a world you once left behind… only now, you’re not the same person who left it.

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What Children Carry Forward: Divorce When Done with Care

One of the most common questions parents ask in mediation is:

“How will this affect our kids?”

The answer isn’t found in court orders or schedules. Children carry forward what they observe—how conflict was handled, how communication was modeled, and whether they were allowed to love both parents freely.

Mediation doesn’t create a perfect divorce. But it can create a healthier foundation, one that children carry with them long after the divorce is final.

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The Long View: A Divorce Mediation Story, Nine Years Later...

Nine years ago, a family sat in mediation terrified of what divorce might do to their children. Last week, I ran into the father at a local restaurant and learned that the story didn’t end the way most people expect. Their daughters are now thriving young adults. They still share family dinners. They still talk. They are still connected. This is the long view of divorce mediation and why how you separate matters just as much as that you do.

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Is it Wise to Postpone Discussing Pre-College and College Expenses Until After Your Divorce?

In many divorces, attorneys often defer, or reserve, discussions on pre-college and college expenses, leaving crucial questions unanswered. This delay can create confusion and turmoil, especially for children navigating their future education paths.

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Prioritizing Children's Well-Being in Divorce: A Mother's Day Reflection

Litigation in divorce proceedings can be profoundly damaging to families, particularly when children are caught in the crossfire. The constant uncertainty in their lives, coupled with heightened anxiety and stifled communication, can take a toll on their mental health. As we celebrate Mother's Day, it's essential to acknowledge the incredible strength and resilience of mothers, especially those who have navigated the challenging journey of divorce.

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International Women's Day: Empowering You to Take Control of Your Divorce and Embrace Self-Care

In the midst of divorce, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about the future. But amidst the chaos, there lies a golden opportunity for women to reclaim their power and shape their destiny. It's a time to prioritize self-care, explore newfound freedoms, and embrace the journey of self-discovery. Divorce may be the end of one chapter, but it's also the beginning of a new, empowering narrative where women reign supreme as the architects of their own happiness.

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